Darling, You're Not Here to Sing Backup – You're Here to Be the Star Do you remember those days in school choir? The tall ones stood at the back. The loud ones stood in the middle. And the rest of us—the "not tall enough," the "not loud enough"—we automatically shuffled to the side, clutching our sheet music, mouthing the words, blending into the blurry background. The teacher would say: "Just stick to the harmony." But did anyone ever ask you—"Do you want to be the lead?" We